Showing posts with label discipline. Show all posts
Showing posts with label discipline. Show all posts

Friday, April 30, 2010

How to Cope With Teenage Stress


Teenage is a transition between childhood and adulthood when changes take place both in mind and body. A teenager will no longer be romping around. Someone who till now was least bothered about his/her behavior becomes conscious and this is the first stress that makes its presence - the awareness of being noticed. And this is just the beginning.

Soon the parents will expect their teenager to become independent in taking care of his/her daily routines which hitherto was the responsibility of the parents. Coping with life and the environment around with no props is sure a situation that can bring about tremendous stress for someone who had no care in the world.

Some teenagers just refuse to grow up and that becomes a struggle of the 'to be or not to be' kind leading to psychiatric counseling. What appeared to be a life with gay abandon is now laden with responsibilities which some shoulders are not ready to bear.

Teaching Your Child Discipline

When a child is born into this world all what it knows is to demand, demand food, demand love, demand attention and if its demand is not met the child gets into tantrums. The mother normally gives in when the child is too small to understand that its demands are not be fulfilled each time they are made. But as the child grows disciplining becomes imperative. Disciplining is simply a way of telling the child that it needs to behave in a manner that is acceptable to society and in the long run it will benefit the child itself. The tendency of a child to behave in a way that gives it joy but hurts the other or destroys itself in the long run needs to be curbed and this is called disciplining the child.