In general however a boy should always project such an image that makes him special. That girls would want to talk about him and vie with each other to get a date. It is not necessary that one should go for plastic surgery to look good. It is the character that reflects and anyone with ordinary looks can be quite a catch. All said and done one with an attitude could be quite interesting to the opposite sex specially a teen. She watches though clandestinely at every move the boy makes, the friends he mixes around, the food he likes, the clothes he wears. The clothes need not be designer wear but just simple neatly tailored and that which fits perfectly and a bit trendy too. He should know which occasion demands what type of clothes.
A confident walk could be quite a catch among teens. Even his performance at college draws a teen girl. His leadership qualities are the ones most teen girls yearn for. There are often occasions present themselves when help is needed and it is those boys who rush lending a helping hand are the ones teen girls are proud to mix round with. Then there are hero worshipers. It is fine being a hero but not at the cost of bullying others. Always ready to spend for the girl is something that tells a lot about the boy and could be included as a plus point
Simple clothes but perfect hygiene can work wonders when trying to impress any teen girl. A teen boy would normally not sport a beard and therefore he should be clean shaven, using a mild after shave lotion and not necessarily dab any perfumes. Cleanliness smells better than any perfumes this world can offer.
He should always enquire about the family of the girl in question and show concern if any untoward incident troubles her. Negativity stinks and no teen girl would want to be anyway near someone who always complains, makes a martyr of himself, and pours his woes on her.
Cheating is yet another aspect that can spell disaster and it will be the end of any teen girl wanting that boy near her rest of her life. If the boy has a particular girl in mind it will be that girl and that alone unless they both decide to part company amicably or may be even after an argument and then he will have the freedom to hook on to someone else.
Those who lose their temper at the drop of a hat is a no no for any teen girl. The boy should go for some counselling or undergo therapy if that is his weakness as no relationship can last with this attitude.
It is at get togethers formal and informal that a boy is watched and it is here that one can build an image of oneself behaving in a polished manner having a control over drinks, being adept at dancing, talking intelligently, cracking decent jokes, staying away from vulgar moves all these count a lot in making an impression, a behaviour that is natural yet acceptable in society.
There will be teen girls who would want to have someone in their life who is wealthy but pretending to be one could spell doom. There will be many more who would prefer boys who are not rich but caring.
Once the boy has an eye on a particular girl he should remember her birthday and send her flowers or even a gift and organise an outing suiting his pocket but never overdoing it. Taking undue liberties with the teen girl can once again put her off and that will be the end of a friendship.
All said and done this is not the age per se to stick to just one person unless they are both head over heals in love. But if it is just a matter of trying to get the 'feel good' factor ensuring every teen girl enjoys his company he will have to follow the same thumb rule.
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